If you’re caring for a loved one with Alzheimer’s disease or another type of dementia, you may be considering memory care. Memory care communities and home care options can help seniors experiencing cognitive decline stay healthy, safe, and engaged, but the price tag on these services can feel overwhelming. Fortunately, a number of assistance options are available to help your family cover the cost of care.
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Your family will likely use a combination of personal funds and public pay resources to cover the cost of memory care for your loved one. Private pay options generally include personal assets, pensions, retirement funds, savings, and financial assistance from family members. Your aging relative may also qualify for government-funded assistance through Medicare, Medicaid, or the VA.
Understanding your family’s budget and financial circumstances should be one of the first steps of your search — and advance planning is essential, given that the median cost of memory care in 2023 is $5,995 a month, according to A Place for Mom’s most recent proprietary data.[01]The more you know about the resources available, the more you can ensure your loved one receives the benefits they deserve.
Explore various benefits below, and learn some surprising ways seniors and their families can pay for memory care.
Medicare is a federal health insurance program available to all adults in the United States over the age of 65, as well as those with certain disabilities. The total number of people enrolled in the program sat just shy of 66 million Americans in 2023, according to the Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services (CMS).[02]
Medicare does offer some memory care financial assistance, but there are limitations on when it will pay for care and how much of the cost it will cover. In most states, benefits are strictly for medical needs. The tasks required to provide personal care for an individual with Alzheimer’s or dementia — including supervision and assistance with activities of daily living (ADLs) — are classified as nonmedical, and thus are not eligible for Medicare coverage.
Some memory care services that are considered medical needs and are covered by Medicare include:[03]
Medicare Advantage plans are offered through private, Medicare-approved companies.[04] They include the same benefits listed above, as well as potential benefits that can be exceptionally advantageous for individuals with Alzheimer’s or other types of dementia.
These potential benefits may cover or provide:
Additionally, Medicare Advantage plans include Special Needs Plans (SNPs), which can provide benefits for specific medical concerns or chronic conditions.[05] Individuals considering long-term nursing care, whether in their home or an assisted living facility, may qualify for an SNP.
Other persons who may qualify for an SNP include those receiving Medicare benefits and Medicaid services, or those with any of the following chronic conditions:
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Jointly funded by the federal and state governments, Medicaid is a health insurance program for people with limited income or financial resources. Individuals diagnosed with Alzheimer’s or another type of dementia mayqualify for Medicaid benefits if they’re unable to work or have a limited ability to work, or if their income or assets fall below a certain level.
Medicaid has broader benefits than Medicare for individuals with cognitive decline. While Medicaid, like Medicare, doesn’t cover the cost of personal care, plans may pay for:
Medicaid assistance is determined on a state-by-state basis, and, in order to utilize these benefits, assisted living and memory care providers must participate in the program. Only about 50% of assisted living communities are Medicaid-approved.
When it comes to Medicaid benefits for dementia and Alzheimer’s care, it’s important to recognize the different Medicaid programs available.
Institutional long-term care is a Medicaid program for individuals who need nursing or long-term care in a residential facility. These facilities are required to be licensed and certified by the state, and they should primarily provide long-term care, skilled nursing, and rehabilitation.[06]
This program covers a range of inpatient and comprehensive services such as institutional benefits. These services include:
Home and Community Based Services (HCBS) are person-centered care provided in an individual’s home or community. HCBS programs are designed to help individuals stay in their homes, rather than moving into an institutional setting or nursing home.[07]
These programs can offer a variety of medical and personal care services, which may include:
In-home dementia care costs may be more expensive than care provided in a community.
Read related article:Memory Care vs. In-Home Care for Dementia: What’s the Difference?
The Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) offers a variety of benefits that can help qualifying senior veterans cover the cost of care. VA health care programs provide medical benefits that may include services beneficial for people experiencing dementia or cognitive decline. The VA may provide ongoing assistance for eligible veterans from the time of a dementia diagnosis through the disease’s terminal stage.[08]
The VA offers a number of different programs that can help cover memory care costs, including those listed below.
The Veteran-Directed Care (VDC) program provides a monthly budget to veterans or their caregivers.
The budget covers the costs of:
Unlike traditional VA services, the VDC puts veterans at the center of their long-term care service. Under the VDC, veterans can:
The Aid and Attendance benefit provides financial assistance to low-income veterans or surviving spouses. The veteran or surviving spouse must meet at least one of the following conditions to qualify:
The Aid and Attendance benefit is an additional monetary amount that can be added to a VA pension, which can help cover the cost of:
The VA Dependent Parent Benefit is a needs-based cash benefit available to veterans caring for a parent with Alzheimer’s or another type of dementia. The parent must be financially dependent on the veteran for care.
This benefit:
State veterans homes are long-term care facilities that are certified by and receive funding from the VA, but they are run by individual states.
The types of care provided in these homes can include:
Read related article:VA Memory Care Resources for Veterans
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A home is often a senior’s largest asset or investment and can be used as a source of funds for dementia care. Here are a few ways you can leverage your loved one’s home equity to pay for memory care:
Life insurance plans may be able to cover memory care costs. A policyholder can sell their policy to a third party and use the proceeds to fund assisted living. Or, a life insurance policy may be “surrendered” to the insurance company for its cash value. However, using life insurance to fund memory care can involve relinquishing policy ownership and not receiving benefits upon death.
Many families cover the cost of memory care with personal assets. A senior may have saved for retirement throughout their career, or they may have a pension. Adult children also frequently contribute to a parent’s cost of care.
Some assets typically used to fund the cost of memory care include:
Some states have funds available to provide financial assistance for individuals with Alzheimer’s or other types of dementia. Some of these programs can require a formal dementia diagnosis, while others can be for a variety of age-related care needs.[09]
It’s worth noting that, as state programs, these operate with a limited availability of funds and are available to a limited number of people. State-based programs typically assist caregivers by paying for adult day care or in-home respite care.
The best way to learn more about these programs is to get in touch with your local Area Agency on Aging.
If the previous examples given don’t apply to your unique situation, there are additional resources available to help pay for memory care:
As the cost of memory care services increases, understanding the options available to you and your loved one can be instrumental in determining how much you pay. A Place for Mom’s Senior Living Advisors can help you with any questions you have about memory care or finding financial resources to cover the associated expenses — all at no cost to your family.
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